This week's writing assignment: "Going Without".
Cakes, not pyramids, were more Maslow's thing.
Lacking the
basics – air, water, food, shelter,
clothing, – is alarmingly dangerous and will permanently change you. Maslow puts our physiological needs at the
base of his hierarchical five-layer life-cake for good reason: you won’t go without them for long, that’s for damn sure – either
you’ll die or you’ll kill, but one way or another you’ll find relief.
The second-tier of Maslow’s cake is safety. Once the things that can snuff you are
handled, those medium-range threats come into focus. A good government can hold
off an angry uprising by addressing just these two levels of need for its
populace; conversely – as Nicholas II and Chiang Kai-shek found out the hard
way - allowing 30 million people to be starved or butchered by roving gangs
will cause a major shift in political favor.
Levels 1 and 2 are where we’ll sink if the Zombie Apocalypse arrives or
a particularly energetic sun-produced EMP shuts down the global grid. “These things,” we muse - as we use a
sharpened lawn-mower blade to carve a steak from our dead neighbor’s haunch –
“we simply won’t tolerate going
without.”
Tier three, though… - the need for love and acceptance – that can feel
like a disposable luxury. We can skulk
around the edges of life without that. To open ourselves to love and acceptance feels
like taking a sledgehammer to the safety of tier two, which we’ve already
established we can’t do without; better
to just settle for a Little Debbie than a wedding
cake, am I right?
Esteem,
the fourth tier theorized by Maslow, is obviously frivolous, I mean, the
shoppers at Wal-Mart alone prove that!
Interestingly, those of us without esteem for ourselves seem to have an
abundance to spray all over those we admire, those preening go-getters who
strut and crow and drive glossy German cars.
How I hate them - and want to be them!
I imagine sometimes what it must be like to have healthy self-esteem, to
place the fourth frosted layer on my Maslow cake – it’s exciting to
pretend! In the end, it’s too much of a
stretch; I can never quite get there.
If you’re one of the lucky few
who’ve managed to carefully craft your life-cake like a boss, your final,
crowning layer is self-actualization
(snooty, smiling, pretentious,
self-absorbed bastards – what does that even mean!!!! ). I’m fairly certain most of humanity is going
without this, and the ones who say they’ve achieved it are just desperately trying
to bake tier three.
Marie Antoinette wasn’t popular
with her proletariat because she, wrapped in the gauzy fog of an imagined five
full layers, projected her towering fantasy cake onto them, and gaily told them to eat it.
They, tired of living on mud-pies and smoke, turned their baleful glares
toward her plump, rosy neck. It’s
alarmingly dangerous, you see, to go without.
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